I often take trains in Tokyo for work. I often see Japanese people quietly looking at their smartphones and bowing their heads, while only foreign travelers are having loud conversations. Japanese people generally don’t speak loudly on trains. When they talk, they use a soft voice. Very few people make phone calls on their smartphones. Although it’s rare to cause trouble by talking on the phone, they might receive disapproving glances. Japanese schools don’t specifically teach train etiquette. Each individual is simply mindful of not causing inconvenience to others.
Japanese people prioritize harmony with their surroundings, so they prioritize the reactions of others over their own desires.
What do Japanese people think of foreign tourists who are lively and noisy on trains? Many would think, “They are a bit noisy, but they are not Japanese, so it can’t be helped.” It’s not just on trains. Japanese people are also quiet in places like hot springs and saunas. If there is someone speaking loudly, they might not directly confront them, but internally they feel discomfort.
This is just my opinion, but Japanese people tend to value calm individuals more than energetic ones. Energetic people may be seen as careless and lacking consideration, while calm individuals are seen as thoughtful and well-mannered. Some foreign travelers may find this Japanese atmosphere restrictive. It might also be difficult for some to understand what Japanese people are thinking when they remain silent. The Japanese tendency to be quiet has both positive and negative aspects, but personally, I think Japanese people should assert themselves more.
